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Post by beautifulchildslove on Oct 5, 2004 16:36:00 GMT -8
I was talking with my friend, and we were just messing around. I was talkin about my boyfriend, like stuff I just say around my friends, and then my friend sent everything to him!!! I am so mad right now! Cuz we were messing around and some if it isn't the way I really feel... I am very emotional sometimes, so I know that if anyone brings it up at school, I'm gonna lose it. And... well... I just don't know what to do...
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Post by cutie_kristin on Oct 5, 2004 18:02:09 GMT -8
Talk to your friend and see if she was just "yanking your chain".
If it acctually happened... Talk to your bf asap. I mean he may take it the wrong way. And than he knows and nothing hopefully bad will happen.
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Post by irina_casandra on Oct 5, 2004 19:13:04 GMT -8
If she's just playing around, then have a laugh and forget about it.  But if she did that for real, than, like c_k said, talk to your bf real quick and tell him they were just playing around and I suggest you have a good talk to your friend 'cause that's not something friends should do.  |
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Post by cherry1217 on Oct 5, 2004 19:29:57 GMT -8
exactly what they said! hopefully it didn't really happen, but for sure talk to both of them, as scary as it may be! it's not fair for you to have a friend who does that to you (tho she may be jealous) and i hope everything works out!
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Post by sparkleprincess on Oct 5, 2004 21:36:29 GMT -8
I wouldn't call that person a "friend".. that's really mean... well.. i hope it solves out well...
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Post by BunnyRabt on Oct 5, 2004 21:41:27 GMT -8
Whoa...if your friend really did send the stuff to him, she isn't really much of a friend. Or maybe she just isn't very good at being one and needs to understand that you just don't betray confidences. I wonder if maybe she is a bit jealous of you.
I would talk to your bf soon, and tell him you were just blowing off and it wasn't really how you feel. That's only if she really did send him the files.
If she didn't send them...don't say anything to him and then in the future you probably should censor what you say to your friend about him just to play it safe.
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Post by beautifulchildslove on Oct 7, 2004 17:16:13 GMT -8
Thanks you guys. Yeah she really did send him the stuff I talked to him and everything was worked out... and I managed not to lose it too! lol. Well, as you said, I think she's a little bit jealous, maybe? cuz she broke up with her bf about a month or so ago... hm. I will censor what I say to her from now on tho. Thanks again, I really couldn't think the other night. I was way too upset. Thanks so much  |
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Post by cutie_kristin on Oct 7, 2004 19:46:43 GMT -8
No prob.. We are always here for you!
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Post by tiffy426 on Oct 7, 2004 20:25:44 GMT -8
Ditto.
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Post by felicia on Oct 7, 2004 22:44:35 GMT -8
Well I don't know about all this boyfriend stuff....I'm still very young,12,nah not the age to talk about all this really but glad that ur problem is solved!
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Post by cherry1217 on Oct 8, 2004 4:34:33 GMT -8
i'm glad everything worked out.....did you talk to her about it? nonetheless, we're all glad we could help out!
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Post by BunnyRabt on Oct 9, 2004 20:11:42 GMT -8
Thanks you guys. Yeah she really did send him the stuff I talked to him and everything was worked out... and I managed not to lose it too! lol. Well, as you said, I think she's a little bit jealous, maybe? cuz she broke up with her bf about a month or so ago... hm. I will censor what I say to her from now on tho. Thanks again, I really couldn't think the other night. I was way too upset. Thanks so much So glad everything is ok with you and your b/f. I think you are right to decide to be cautious with your interactions with your friend. If she asks why you don't confide in her anymore, I would make it clear that until she shows that she can really be trusted again, you won't be confiding in her. Hopefully she will learn from her mistake in betraying you and become a better friend. On the whole, it sounds like things worked out well! |
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Post by puppyprincessgrl on Oct 10, 2004 16:03:50 GMT -8
that's good to hear rach:)
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